Answers To Common Questions About Committed Intimate Relationships In Washington
Many long-term relationships function like de facto marriages. To protect property rights and other interests when these couples part ways, the state of Washington recognizes a legal status known as a “committed intimate relationship” (CIR). On this page, we’ve answered some common questions about CIRs.
Do we need a cohabitation agreement, and what should it cover?
An existing cohabitation agreement isn’t required to be considered in a CIR, but it is wise to have one if you live together but are not married. This agreement can cover financial responsibilities, property ownership and plans for property division if the relationship ends. It provides clarity and protection for both parties.
How are property and debt divided if we separate but aren’t legally married?
In Washington, property acquired during a committed intimate relationship may be divided similarly to marital property. Jointly owned property and debt are typically divided equitably. This means the court will aim for a fair division, taking into account each person’s financial contributions and future needs.
What are my rights to financial support if our relationship ends?
Even if a judge determines you were in a CIR, neither partner is entitled to financial support like spousal maintenance (also called alimony). CIR status is primarily related to the division of property and debts. The only exception would be if there was a preexisting and valid contract providing support.
How can we protect assets acquired before and during the relationship?
To safeguard assets, document them clearly and establish a cohabitation agreement. Keeping separate accounts and maintaining records of individual contributions can also be beneficial.
How are custody and visitation determined for children we’ve had together?
Whether parents are married or unmarried, child custody decisions must always be made in the best interests of the child. Parents can create a parenting plan together or have a judge decide, but any plan must meet that best interest standard.
Do I have any legal standing if I’m not a biological or adoptive parent of our child?
If you have acted as a parent, you may have standing to seek visitation or custody rights. However, these cases can be complex, so it is critical to consult an experienced family law attorney.
Can I make medical or financial decisions for my partner in emergencies?
Without legal documents like a power of attorney, you may not have the authority to make these decisions. Consider setting up such documents to ensure you can act in emergencies.
How can we protect our individual retirement and benefits if we separate?
To protect retirement and benefits, maintain clear records and consider including terms in a cohabitation agreement. Each case is decided on its own merits, but taking these steps can at least minimize the chances that your retirement accounts will be split against your wishes.
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